Sunday, September 21, 2014

Yin & Yang.

Uniqlo Black T's, Glitter and Co Necklace, Skirt from Local Store, Zara Heels

A series of Taoism well said that people actually has two sides of life. Yin and Yang - Bright and Dark. Everybody has it, the kindest man on earth can't ever let his/her dark side go, and vice versa. Yin-yang is conceptualized as a theory to describe apparently opposite or contrary forces are actually complementary. They are separated, yet interconnected to each other. Black and white, fire and water, male and female, sun and moon, and the most important thing is, life and death. They are the aspects of human life that are contrast to each other but they complement each other. White color will be erased by black, fire will be extinguished by water, male will be conquered by female, sun will be gone by the time moon appears, and life will be left behind as the death comes. Those things hurt sometimes, but that's the truth.

My life is also the same. Ying-yang. Happiness comes after my long sadness, and sadness will apparently replace my happiness. These two things created their own vicious circle. I believe it does not only happen to me, but also to you. But while my deepest sorrow attacks, I always believe that one day my happiness will visit me. So I am just enjoying myself now. A broken hearted woman will never stand steadily if she cannot even control her own sadness. Like a quote said, " Work hard for what you want because it won't come to you without a fight. You have to be strong and courageous and know you can do anything you put your mind to. If somebody puts you down or criticizes you, just keep on believing in yourself and turn it into something positive." So I believe it is the time for me to look up, seek for my own happiness and bury my sorrow.

When the sorrow comes back, just do the same thing. Because it is life.. a Ying and Yang.

LoveMuach, Silvi.


  1. Lovely outfit and a beautiful post!

  2. Beautiful outfit and love the sentiment behind it. That skirt and the necklace are gorgeous :)

    Alexandra ♡

  3. Beautiful outfit and lovely post Eva! You look amazing!

  4. Lovely skirt xx

  5. such a cute outfit!

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  6. Love the sheer paneling on the dress! And the necklace is gorgeous :)

  7. such a pretty outfit!!

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  8. your outfit is really cute but chic at the same time :)

  9. Yes, your words are true! This is life and we have to be grateful and enjoy every little things that have and will happen to us :)
    Pretty necklace and simple yet awesome outfit!

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  10. This is incredible! Those shoes are divine. xx


  11. I love the idea of bringing your darker and brighter side in fashion. Inspiring and creative, love it !
    + Those shoes are stunning!

  12. Wow such an elegant outfit! Love the black and white effect!

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  13. i love your skirt, you look classy and pretty <3


  14. Cute skirt! xx

  15. I loved reading about your explanation of ying and yang, I think it's such a wonderful concept. There are two sides to each coin, and you can't escape them. And I think sadness brings its own beauty- it turns you thoughtful and makes you think of how to achieve that happiness that's just on the other side. You'll get there :) And lovely look- that necklace caught my eye right away!

    xo marlen
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    1. Yes you are totally right. Someday, everyone will get his/her own happiness after sadness disappear.The thing is, you just need to wait. It will come by itself.
      Thank you anyways!


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